Idlib, Syria – A month after devastating earthquakes struck northern Syria, Moufida Ghanem is mourning the lack of a son and the destruction of her dwelling, which collapsed on her and her two boys, breaking her leg and killing her 18-year-old son.
Rescued from below the rubble along with her 15-year-old son, Ali, the 40-year-old widow now finds herself having to deal with yet one more loss. However she has been capable of rise to each problem to this point.
“For the previous six years, I’ve been the mom and father at dwelling,” she advised Al Jazeera from a tented encampment in Azmarin, Idlib province. “Now I’ve to be a mom, father and brother for my son.”
When her restoration is full, Ghanem stated, she’s going to search for work to attempt to present a ”respectable life” for what stays of her household.
Because the world marks Worldwide Ladies’s Day on Wednesday, plenty of outstanding portraits of girls’s energy are rising from northwest Syria because it struggles to recuperate from the huge earthquakes.
Single or widowed girls like Ghanem discover themselves pressured to stay in overcrowded encampments the place humanitarian organisations say they’re at heightened danger of harassment and abuse.
The Worldwide Rescue Committee (IRC) has discovered that greater than 60 p.c of the surveyed households had a head of family outlined as an individual in danger, together with female-headed households.
“Ladies and women advised us they don’t really feel secure going to the lavatory in overcrowded collective shelters,” Elias Abu Ata, communications officer at IRC, advised Al Jazeera. “Some reported harassment.”

Most accessible shelter choices additionally lack important amenities like bogs and bogs, which has a disproportionate impact on the security of girls and women.
Greater than 8.8 million folks have been affected by the quakes throughout Syria, based on United Nations figures, and greater than 105,000 folks have been displaced.
‘A elegant mission’
Final month’s devastation has made the roles girls already play way more necessary.
A couple of month earlier than the earthquake, Iman Abdel Razzaq, 44, had give up her job as a paediatric nurse to bear vascular surgical procedure on her foot. However when the mom of 4 noticed the dimensions of destruction and the wants that got here with it, she arrange a medical centre to deal with folks freed from cost, partnering with plenty of her colleagues who pitched in all of the medical tools they owned.
“The state of affairs in Jandaris was apocalyptic, folks have been terrified, kids have been crying in every single place and we might hear the moans and groans coming from below the homes that had fallen on the households residing there,” Abdel Razzaq advised Al Jazeera.

“I used to be afraid after the earthquake, however I solely considered how I might assist folks,” she stated, including that their clinic receives no less than 80 kids every day along with women and men who want care and a few pregnant girls who want emergency deliveries.
Iman and her colleagues have managed to maintain the mission going from the day they set it up, proper after the earthquakes. “Our work is voluntary and particular person as we attempt to supply free healthcare to individuals who want it. We depend on particular person donations to purchase extra provides for the clinic and haven’t obtained assist from any organisations or authorities,” she stated.
Requested whether or not the work ever overwhelms her, she answered: “I achieve my energy from working as a result of I take into account medical and humanitarian work to be a elegant mission, it’s saving lives and serving to folks.”
‘My son asks me if the subsequent shock will kill us’
The feminine well being professionals in northwest Syria are very busy taking good care of others, they usually additionally should cope with the trauma their very own kids went by way of.
“After I come dwelling, the very first thing my seven-year-old son asks me is that if we are going to die when one other shock happens,” Shahd al-Abdullah, a 29-year-old medical companies volunteer with the Syria Civil Defence, a rescue group working in opposition-held elements of Syria often known as the White Helmets, advised Al Jazeera.
The IRC survey discovered two in three kids confirmed indicators of psychological misery, similar to elevated crying, unhappiness and nightmares, with greater than half of the households interviewed saying their kids have been having nightmares.
Al-Abdullah used to stay in Saraqeb, east of Idlib, however moved to Qorqanya to stay along with her mother and father after being displaced by struggle in 2019.
Her mom had woken up when the earthquake hit, and began shouting at everybody to get out of the home, al-Abdullah recalled, so she grabbed her son in her arms and made her approach out into the road, surrounded by the bewildered faces of her neighbours.

“I waited slightly for the aftershocks to relax then I left my son with my mother and father and headed to the Civil Defence centre. As I walked alongside, I used to be astounded on the stage of destruction and the variety of folks out on the street within the rain and freezing wind; none of them knew what to do,” she stated.
As a result of the dimensions was so large, the Civil Defence volunteers weren’t confined to working of their authentic roles. “My specialisation is emergency care, however I used to be working with the search and rescue groups to seek out folks caught below the rubble in addition to providing them emergency care on the medical centres,” al-Abdullah defined.
“One of many issues that occurred that I received’t have the ability to neglect is that at some point we rescued a pregnant lady from below the rubble. She was nonetheless alive after we put her within the ambulance so she might go to the hospital.
“She grabbed my hand and stated: ‘Don’t depart me, I’m frightened for the newborn.’ I used to be making an attempt to calm her down the entire solution to the hospital however sadly as soon as we arrived we realised that she had misplaced the newborn. Along with that, she had excessive accidents to her bones that resulted in her paralysis,” al-Abdullah stated sadly.

The Civil Defence groups have been working nonstop for the reason that earthquakes, and among the many issues that Shahd and her colleagues do is to go out to the camps to supply medical care to the survivors residing there. “We attempt to reassure these folks, a few of whom stay in horrible circumstances, that the Civil Defence is right here for them and won’t abandon them and that we’ll assist as a lot as we are able to,” al-Abdullah continued.
“Now we have confirmed, as girls, that we are able to work in probably the most tough circumstances and in all fields. Ladies now work within the Civil Defence, and within the medical and humanitarian fields, they’re making a distinction in every single place, in most civil society organisations,” she stated.
‘Indescribable emotions’
“After I noticed the destruction that impacted so lots of the folks of Jinderes and Afrin, I used to be deeply affected and actually needed to assist someway, irrespective of how small my contribution can be,” 22-year-old artist Yasmine Khalil advised Al Jazeera.
For her, therapeutic the psychological wounds left by the tragedy is a very powerful factor.
“I solely have my brushes and my colors to assist folks with, so I began engaged on work that confirmed the painful actuality we have been residing in Jandaris,” she stated. The work present the destroyed buildings as smoke and dirt rise.

“In one of many work, a girl is crying and screaming as she emerges from the rubble clutching her useless son to her chest.”
Yasmine needed to promote her work to lift cash to assist shelter or assist no less than one household within the stricken space. So she held a stay public sale on-line and ended up elevating almost 6,000 euros ($6,300).
“My dream had been to promote all my work to lift even simply sufficient cash to assist one affected household. I might by no means have imagined that I’d find yourself elevating this a lot. This cash that was raised might assist arrange tents to shelter almost 50 households.
“My emotions are indescribable,” she stated. “With my brush and hues, I managed to contribute to the reduction of the troubled.”